It is the thought that counts

Posted on 4th December 2008 in Life, Opinions

     I was reading one of my favorite blogs today, UrbanBranches. I love the posts done by the Eco-Fashionista. This time she spoke about her holiday tradition, purging her closet and donating the unworn or unwanted clothing to charity. So I urge you to do the same. I will be doing some of that myself. First, since Rick has lost his job I will try to sell some of the things from around here. But the rest I will hopefully be able to donate and recycle. Another idea would be to give things away to friends. I have done that with some of my skin care products that I cannot use anymore.

     Another post I was reading written by the usual UrbanBranches poster, Lindsey. She stated, “It truly is the year of THE THOUGHT THAT COUNTS.” This brought up something that has bothered me for some time. Since we have moved into a better neighborhood, and since I got my office in Mill Creek, I have noticed that people around here are very money focused. I have actually heard people say that it isn’t the thought that counts but the gift. I told Rick that is all us “poor” people have, a sweet thought.
     I have heard that a lot. I have heard people complain about getting bad gifts. It makes me angry. Does that mean that a small child cannot pick a dandelion and give it to his mom? Does this mean that you cannot make something or write something for your love? I hope not. So think about it. Are you going to be selfish and tell your friend or lover that you do not like their gift, take it back you want something else? Or are you going to be grateful that someone thought of you and got you a gift, even if it isn’t perfect? Would you rather they do not get you anything? Do you want to be that superficial person?
     I hope that this isn’t the only year that the thought must count. We should all go back to that.

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Drink hot tea from a second hand cup to stay warm

Posted on 2nd December 2008 in Frugal, Shopping

     Since we decided to cut back on our expenses, we have only used the wall heater two days. Both days were very cold and neither Rick nor I could stay warm. That is not too bad though, two of ten or so days, without using the wall heater.
     I have done my part to stave off using the heater. I put on a couple more layers of clothing. I have avoided very cold foods, such as frozen fruit smoothies – though I am not sure how much longer I am going to want to “avoid” those.
     One thing I have done to stay warm on the cold days is having a cup of tea. I have always loved tea and coffee cups. My grandparents always had pretty ones with flowers. I have one of them. I love it. But it isn’t big enough in my opinion. I love huge mugs. I found this one at theLynnwood Goodwill a month ago. It was only $1.60 or so. It is so pretty, clear, light blue. It holds just the right amount of hot drink.
     This holiday season why not try a Goodwill? You can find many things far less expensive. It may take a little hunting but it will be worth it.

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