College, students, and feeling old

Posted on 22nd September 2010 in Life

      You’ll probably be hearing the occasional thing about school. Today was my first day. First day of online classes. Meaning, I stood in line for close to two hours to get all the stuff I needed to do school from home. Three separate lines. I didn’t get into the wrong one either. Just three long lines. I’m happy it’s done.

      I was reminded, as I walked passed students, faculty, and parents, that I’m a student. I don’t feel like one. I feel like an intruder, or like a blogger, just looking in for a story. Or for a picture because there’s something about yellow orange leaves anywhere. College campuses often have lots of leaves to spare.

      I stood behind a girl who wanted to be part of student government, behind a boy who looked 17, and another who looked and sounded 19. It reminded me that kids in college are so unsettled. They are out to meet lots of people, experience their fellow students and classes. They are out to have fun and do some learning along the way.
      It’s a guess, probably accurate, that not one of them is planning or saving for a house. Like me. I’m old. I like it. I’m in-between-old, not really old, but beyond the crazy partying of college aged kids. I’m in the house saving age group. A house so I can have a huge compost pile, and another dog, and a green house. I want to putter around and be an old person, baking gluten free cookies, hands stained with dirt from planting potatoes, in my own backyard. I want to plant an apple tree. I want to put down roots. 20 year old Missy would be horrified….

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Teach yourself!

Posted on 16th September 2010 in Life, Opinions

      Even though I plan on going to school for journalism and would love some day to have a PhD in something(perhaps holistic nutritional application through journalism – yeah I made that up, it’s what I do), I am a huge advocate of teaching yourself. Following what interests you might have and figuring out how to become the very best you can at it. If you want.
      I’ve been reading The Organic Sister for awhile and she is an advocate for unschooling – adademically, body, and whole life. You don’t need a classroom to learn. In fact, a classroom might not give you anything useful for how you want to live your life. For further well written explanations of unschooling, whole life and more, check out these posts: Whole Life Unschooling: It’s For More Than Just Kids,I Am Not Broken, Body Compassion,The Uproar Over Unschooling. There is so much more, you’ll just have to scroll through her lovely site. If you don’t fall in love with her amazing photos I’ll be surprised.

      It’s had me thinking, a lot. And you know, I only share a small amount of what I’m actually thinking about. Weekly, I mentally run through what is a burning passion of mine, burning enough that I have to get it out. This is important enough to post about. Teach yourself! What are you interested in? What is even just mildly amusing? What have you thought was the niftiest thing for a long time? You don’t have to wait to delve into the interest. You don’t have to take a class, there is a lot you can do thanks to the internet, friends, the library, and second hand shops.

A couple of my interests that I finally decided I could step forth and tackle: knitting and herbalism.

Knitting

Harvest Yarn Knitting Project

Harvest Yarn Knitting Project

      A friend of mine taught me the basics of knitting a few months ago. I’ve made a small handful of things since then, a hat for a friend, two hats for me. I should really branch out and make something else. When we were on our vacation this summer we ran across an awesome yarn shop, Cr.eations – A yarn shop, where I bought some double pointed needles, yarn on sale, patterns and yarn for one pattern in particular. I just have to take that step and decode the pattern. It’s also important to me that I continue to practice my basic stitches so when it’s time to start that sweater it looks gorgeously uniform. So the current project is another hat, which I may or may not keep, I’m not sure how I feel about it yet. The amazing thing is that I followed a pattern and it didn’t look like the picture. I figured out why it was wrong! It was because I’m knitting my hat on round needles and I don’t turn around to do the next row. Knitting in the round involves going around and around for a long time. No switching needed. Only problem is that some patterns seem to be made for knitting something with sides. No worries though! I figured it out and made the needed changes to fix it. Now it looks like the pattern! The amazing thing is I didn’t have to take a class! Logic and a little bit of math(multiplication and division) were the only things I really needed to use. I am a friend and internet taught knitter!

Herbalism

Herbalism Books

Herbalism Books

      Learning about herbalism has been on my mind for at least a year, which for me is a long time. Last year I found a class I want to take when I have money and time. Cedar Mountain Herb School offers internships for all seasons. But as my post about debt should have lead you to believe, I don’t have a lot of money, and this year I have no extra time for another class. So instead of feeling sorry for myself over something I can’t change, I decided to check the required reading for that class out of the library. I’m only just through the introduction of Medicinal Plants of the Pacific West. But that’s okay, I’m excited. They are both reference books and when I feel I can justify spending money on them, they will be joining my library. Also, I’ll be checking in on Good Natured Earthling’s(she runs Cedar Mountain Herb School) Facebook page for suggestions, and random useful information.

      See! No classroom needed. I’m not actually sure that the herbalism school has a typical classroom. Because of the nature of herbalism there is a lot of outside stuff, learning the whole process from harvesting to preserving in different forms and using them.
      My life now reminds me a lot of what I had wanted to do when I was in school. If you don’t already know, I was home-schooled all through grade and middle school. I was enrolled in a “real” private school, but it was only slightly different from homeschooling. In the end I got my diploma after four years of doing what I actually wanted.
      When in high-school, I had wanted soooo badly to pursue what I was interested in, drawing, writing, photography, books of all kinds. I wanted to be free of the boring requirements set by the school and the state. Meaning, less math and US history (note: there is nothing wrong with those subjects. I’m not greatly talented at math and I hated the fact that I had to take US history at least three different times. But if I remember correctly, that’s what the state required. *shakes fist*). Now the math I use is stuff to help me get done the fun things I want to do, knitting, crocheting, cooking, and taxes(bleh). Learning doesn’t have to happen in a classroom, at a public school that has old school books and over-worked teachers. It doesn’t have to be organized by an expert or come with a certification(unless it’s required by the state, i.e. massage therapy, but that makes sense). It’s just as legitimate to teach yourself to do something as it is to have a paid teacher instruct you. In fact, it can be a point of pride, of achievement if you answer a question with, “I taught myself”. It’s not shameful or embarrassing to teach yourself or to have a parent or friend teach you. Unfortunately, there are still people out there that still believe the best time of your life is spent in a boring classroom between the ages of 5 and 18. Prove them wrong, teach yourself, your children, your friends, your neighbors, or even the nay-sayers something fun and useful that you actually want to learn.

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Debt – Modern Day Slavery

Posted on 15th September 2010 in Life

      Debt is something I’ve been thinking about for a very long time. In early ’09 I was busy paying off debt we incurred after Rick got laid off and we had to buy out our lease, and forgo paying for a couple of other bills for at least a month, and the medical bills that had surprised us months after the E.R. visit. I don’t know why those bills still surprise me. I know they are coming, it’s just unnerving to read $756 or whatever, on an official hospital statement. (Note: at the time of the E.R. visit, we had health insurance, we had not met our deductible, hence the bill.)

      Since then I’ve had this goal in the back of my mind: to pay off our debt, in a sort of timely manner, so we don’t have to feel like everything is so tight. So maybe we can get ahead, and actually own our stuff, whatever stuff we decide to keep. So we can feel free.
      I have no idea what a timely manner is. I’m not sure how long it’s going to take to pay off the student and private loans we have. I do have an end date for my car, but it seems so far off. It’s just overwhelming, and very depressing when it’s challenging to figure out how much money we have for food and fun, also, how much money we are going to need for taxes and school next year. Taxes are something one has to save for when one is self employed. Quite frankly, some days I’m just tired of feeling like I’m a hamster running nowhere on my wheel.

      I have goals that require me to have less debt and more money saved. The biggest goal at the moment is a home, a house, a roof that we own, windows that are mine, and a yard in which to compost, grow insane amounts of herbs and veggies, let Xiann run around like a crazy dog. Yes, it’s official. I am okay with the idea of buying a house. I feel at home enough in Bellingham to stay awhile, probably a long time. Yet that goal I’ve now set for myself feels like it won’t happen for a very, very long time.

      It’s my impatience that’s talking. It’s my feelings of what aren’t quite regret. I don’t think one should regret that which teaches you a lesson. But it doesn’t feel good a lot of the time. I have to remind myself that it’s a process that can’t, or shouldn’t happen over night. It could be considered a right of passage. Changing from a participant of the rat race, to a sustainable/organic/recycled/reused thinking, independent person – with way less debt and a life of which I can be proud.

      I ran across this blog: Tiny r(E)volution. The writer and his wife have made it a goal to build their own tiny, recycled/reused/movable/environmentally-friendly/way-less-expensive home.
      There were two posts specifically that spoke to me. Both are about debt and the American rat race, and how crazy it has become. Check them out for some inspiration and encouragement.

The Modern Hippy

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Did you ever wonder what the heck a peck was?

Posted on 13th September 2010 in Life

      Did you ever wonder as a child – or even an adult – what the heck a peck was? As in, Peter Piper picked a peck of pickled peppers? I did, for a long time, every time I heard that tongue twister. Well, thanks to bags at Bellewood Acres, I know the answer to that question!

Pick a Peck

Pick a Peck

      See, the print says so! Isn’t that the coolest thing you could ever learn?!?! Believe it or not, it is useful information that I will actually pull out later on in life. Yes, I am ridiculous, a child(not that children are ridiculous, they aren’t, but I am and very much still a kid), but really what’s wrong with that?

Explanation of a Peck

Explanation of a Peck

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Holistic

Posted on 10th September 2010 in Health Related, Life

      I’ve been learning so much in just the last year. I’ve been trying to retrain myself to think in a whole different way. Life is simple yet complex. There isn’t any one solution. It’s about balance. It’s about being whole.

Holistic – dictionary.com defines it as the following:

    “1. Adjective -
    incorporating the concept of holism in theory or practice: holistic psychology.
    2.
    identifying with principles of holism in a system of therapeutics, esp. one considered outside the mainstream of scientific medicine, as naturopathy or chiropractic, and usually involving nutritional measures.”

    Also:
    “of or relating to the the medical consideration of the complete person, physically and psychologically, in the treatment of a disease”

    and:
    “relating to or concerned with wholes or with complete systems rather than with the analysis of, treatment of, or dissection into parts < holistic medicine attempts to treat both the mind and the body>“

      Thesaurus.com gives the following words as synonyms: Aggregate, comprehensive, entire, full, integrated, total and universal.
I’m particularly fond of integrated, entire, total and universal.
      I think what I’ve been learning is that holistic is the way things should be, life should be. It’s what I’ve been looking for. But we have forgotten. Everything is compartmentalized. It’s why thinking only in terms of massage at work leaves things unexplained. It’s why we can look at Rick as separate conditions, one skin, one colon, separate, never considered together. It’s why we as a society can say we love our jobs that stress us out, but feel like crap and can’t understand why. It’s why so many of us don’t say no to anyone and wonder why we are so tired. We’ve forgotten about the very idea of balance – of wholeness. We’ve all been told by someone or something, especially here in America, that we can have it all. But all might be too much for us. That was never warned.

      I used to get confused when people won’t get better after a massage a week for months. Now I see them more clearly. I see tired people, too much coffee, too little nutrient rich food, too little fun/down time, too much “Yes” and not enough “No”. I hear that someone still has migraines or a low back ache – I kindly as I can – tell them that they will never get better if they don’t change something in their daily life. Sometimes it posture, sometimes it’s the hours worked in a day, or the chair, or whatever.

      I can see myself more clearly. Frankly, if I saw myself as a client, I would have said long ago, chill out, back off, eat well and get off your bum. Quit thinking compartmentally. Everything counts, from the poor hours sleep you got last night, to the half bag of potato chips you called a snack, to slouching too much while standing and sitting. It all matters. Everything we do matters! Kind of exciting, really.

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Productivity

Posted on 5th September 2010 in Life

      Something is in the air. Perhaps it’s the season changing to autumn, perhaps its the tea I’ve been drinking, or how well I’ve been sleeping, either way I’ve felt a change. I feel more like I did over six years ago, when my only worry was helping my “kids” with their homework and how much – or little – sleep I got the night before.
      After our vacation, slowly but surely I’ve been gaining energy. There has been an improvement in my cognitive ability – meaning I don’t feel like I’m walking around with cotton between my ears. I finally feel like yes, I do want to be self-employed again. I do want to go to school for journalism. Yup, that’s right. I’ve kept it under wraps because I didn’t know if anything would come through properly. But life is running a little more smoothly now. I’ve got passion, I’ve got drive, I have finally got creative juices running on an almost daily basis! Oh it’s good to be back!

      As an off shoot from my main focus – if you can see the main focus at all, it’s more healthful and mindful living in case you were wondering – I’m going to share some of my goals and projects for the next few months.

  • Going back to school for journalism – nutritional (and environmental) journalism
  • Actually doing something for my business to keep it from falling apart. (Shameless plug: check out Bellingham Massage Clinic)
  • Decorating our apartment because I want it to feel more like home, less like a crazy asylum
  • Taking running and yoga up again
  • Knitting a sweater for myself
  • Taking more photos
  • Remembering to pay attention to how beautiful life can be, enjoying the little things, whatever they may be
  • And so much more!
          Moral of this post. Life’s too short, take a vacation!

    (You know what’s really funny. I wrote this a couple of days before a nasty bug laid me out. Productivity gone until I can smell and sleep well again. Thought I should post it even though at the moment all my desires to redecorate are stunted by being really, really tired.)

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    Welcome Back!

    Posted on 28th July 2010 in Life

    After almost a week unplanned hiatus, yours truly, the Modern Hippy, is back!
    I have so many things planned. I was on vacation for about a week, before the website disappeared.
    I’ll be sharing more eco-friendly camping ideas. Eco-friendly road trip ideas. Yes, I said that. It might not seem like an eco-friendly type of vacation, however, there are ways to lessen one’s impact. I’ll have another post for the Aunt Flow series. There has also been a recently, awesomely cool, development in my hair experiments. I’ll be sharing a little about a couple of awesome people we met while camping. She has a website about living more balanced. She also sells ebooks, two of which I bought and am about ready to read. Stay tuned for my onslot of crazy posting!

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    Stress

    Posted on 30th June 2010 in Health Related, Life, Opinions

         I’ve been trying really hard to keep this blog up beat in the last two years. Mostly because life has often been a downer. Wonderful things have happened, especially since we moved to Bellingham. However, it does seem like just after I decompress, something else comes up and squashes my feelings of contentment.

         Since I feel like throwing in the towel at the moment(and using cliches left and right), I thought I’d have a chat about stress and stress management. I might end up talking typing my way into being more Zen.

         Stress does bad things to your body if you don’t know how to manage it. Long term stress, even if you do know how to manage it well, will do bad things also. Muscles tighten, digestion slows or speeds up, sleep gets longer, less, or interrupted in some way. (Hence why I’ve started this post at 6:30 a.m.) Depending on many different things, it can negatively impact relationships, or draw you and whomever closer together.

         So what the %@&*!!! does one do to better manage stress? Well, it doesn’t come easy and it takes some experimenting. Think about what you enjoy doing. This can be your starting point. I love reading, writing, art, gardening, nature, learning how to take better pictures with my gorgeous new camera, etc.

    Managing stress part one

         One needs to be able to identify that there is a problem before a solution(or experiment) can be reached. What the hell is stressing you out? To use me as an example, I’ve always had trouble sleeping. So I’ve always been tired. The “older” I get, the worse, or more tired I get. The less ability I have to deal with bullshit. I had found a solution to the problem of my sleeping/nightmares in acupuncture. It works! It’s brilliant! Now I just have to build my energy back up by sleeping well for a longer period of time. Though I’ll never really be able to make up for all that poor sleeping for 25+ years, or so they say.
         Unfortunately, it doesn’t take much to wear me out. After a day with a horrible migraine, two nights of not sleeping more than 4.5 hours each night, I was unable to fully deal with a business challenge, along with working a ton, getting up early and not being able to nap, two extra-whiny-needy pets, and not having a lot of down time to recover, among other things. The last straw was a speeding ticket on my way to work. Within a few minutes, I started bawling. There was no way I could do any sort of body work that day. Luckily, the people I work with are very understanding. They know that sometimes you just can’t work.
         See, I identified a bunch of problems. Part one completed.

    What I could have done differently.
         Really, the migraine should have tipped me off. But I thought it was just a fluke, nothing horrible, just a crazy thing happening by chance. I also should have paid closer attention to the stresses I was feeling due to the business stuff I was having to deal with for the last week or so. It was more intense that I was used to. Something that would have possibly helped was remembering to pull out my aromatherapy, talking about it more, doing some deep diaphragmatic breathing, taking a walk, etc.
         I tend to be one of those people whom holds everything inside, which isn’t healthy because it has to come out eventually. So talking, for me is a good thing, if I can start. Even if I end up talking about something that is different, but still bothers me, it can help relieve the “exploding” feeling I get sometimes.

         Blogging can also help, which is why I started this post very early this morning.(It’s no longer in the a.m. at the moment.) Unfortunately, I didn’t let myself cry then, which may have helped prevent a bawling session that cost me some work hours.

    Managing stress part two

         Pick something you enjoy doing, or that you know helps you to decompress, or that you just read about. Start somewhere! Try breathing techniques. If you need an idea as to how to do that, read here. Try drinking a cup of tea. Go for a walk. We have all heard that moderate exercise increases endorphins, which make us happy and helps us to de-stress. Try something. If you don’t feel better, try something else. Remember that it can’t last forever, there has to be an end eventually.

         Of course you can argue that looking back I can say anything. You are right about that. I can’t change what happened, all I can do it try to learn from it and do better next time. No one should expect you to be perfect and “on” all the time. Mistakes happen, life happens, shit happens. Sometimes the thing to do, is to just cry it out, pick yourself back up and try again.

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    Organic- Eco-friendly Shopping – THC Organic Market – Long Beach WA

    THC Organic Market, Long Beach WA

    THC Organic Market, Long Beach WA

         After you make a huge change in your lifestyle, it can be a little challenging when you go to plan a vacation, whether it be camping, travel over seas, road tripping, or just a mini-break spent at your father and step-mother-in-laws on the Long Beach Peninsula. Do you change what you eat, or use or do normally to make it easier? (Is that even an options?) Or do you soldier on, sticking with your convictions?

         Rick and I went away for a few days recently. Over the last few years, as we have been students and changed careers many times, have not had a ton of money to spend on travel. Also, until recently, Rick couldn’t do much traveling anyway, his health complicated simple trips of more than a few minutes. At the moment at least, he’s doing well and we can plan to act like a “normal” couple, taking little trips here and there. We are just learning how to do the green, organic, gluten free “hippy” way of traveling. It’s scary, exciting and very fun so far!

         Before we left, we did searches looking for gluten free options (as this is the most important part of our life) anywhere near Ocean Park, where we were staying on the peninsula. I wanted to find anything. And we found THC Organic Market in Long Beach, the town. I was so excited! I was going to take pictures, shop and generally be a total hippy nerd.

         Not long after we left, I realized that I had forgotten our shampoo. Shoot! What was I going to do? I was agonizing over it while we drove. Because though I don’t wash my hair daily, there was going to be one “hair wash day” in the middle of the mini-break (UK version of mini vacation – I have friends from there and think “mini-break” sounds better). I don’t like using my plain castile soap on my hair, I had tried that once with very little luck. Although, to be fair, my hair was really long then, not short as it is now.

         The first full day that we were on the peninsula, Rick and I went on a mission. Rather, I was on a mission and Rick was along for the ride. We searched and searched, following google maps directions on his phone, to find THC Organic Market. Nothing, it wasn’t where it should have been – according to the map. I’ve discovered since living in Bellingham, that Google Maps don’t always do everything perfectly. Just as we were going to give up, we drove further into town, and stumbled upon the market! There it was, at the end of a long building, just across the street from the Neptune – the local movie theatre. I just about lost my self control I was so excited!

         There was a little “A” frame sign with the days soup special(if I remember correctly) out front. Inside we found a smallish store, packed seven or eight feet high, with all the stuff I could find at the Bellingham Community Co-op! I was in heaven! There were organic products everywhere! (I know the name has “organic” in the name, but you never know.)
    After a few minutes of being completely ridiculous, I settled down and looked for stuff I might need. Tea. I had woken up with a sore throat that morning and didn’t have any of my soothing tea with me. I found a whole section of Yogi teas. Review on the tea itself will be coming soon!

         As I was browsing, resisting Rick’s urges to get going, I ran across my shampoo brand. Actually, found my exact shampoo, that doesn’t burn me or make me itch. (Also, should do a review on that as well.) My day was complete. I could wash my hair the following day without worry. Yes, I am a teeny, tiny bit neurotic and prefer my hair washed once it’s passed the three day mark. So far in my hair experiments that is as far as I have gotten. Anyway, getting side-tracked.

         We ended up getting some of our “normal” groceries at THC Organic Market. We were able to enjoy organic butter on our gluten free rolls(from our co-op), cups and cups of Throat Comfort Yogi Tea, and a good shampooing the next morning (okay, almost afternoon). It was so awesome we went back the next day to show Rick’s dad and step-mom, George and Judy – and get gluten free donut holes and buffalo jerkey.

         So if you ever find yourself on the Long Beach Peninsula in need of tea, shampoo, pet food, organic anything. Check out the THC Organic Market. Get their address, get the Neptune Twin Theatre’s address for reference. Or if you don’t mind talking on the phone(like I do), give them a call for good directions. Just don’t rely on Google Maps, (sorry Google,you are cool but the maps needs work). Mapquest?

         To read their story, check out their site closer, or for updates, click on the following links:
    Website: THC Organic Market
    Facebook page(updates): THC Organic Market Facebook Page

    Indoor view - THC Organic Market, Long Beach, WA

    Indoor view - THC Organic Market, Long Beach, WA

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    Locks of Love

    Posted on 24th May 2010 in Life, Locks of Love, Recycled

         Last year a friend of mine cut her super gorgeous long hair off and donated it to Locks of Love. I just had to steal her idea! Last summer I roasted alive in the heat. There were days in the 90′s in north western Washington. We aren’t built for that. Or at least I’m not anymore.

         Since last summer I grew my hair out further to make sure I had enough to cut off and enough to play around with(yes I ended a sentence with a preposition). It took forever! I got so sick of it. I reminisced about my high school days of short hair, even the short “do” I sported three years ago.

         Finally, two weeks ago I made an appointment. I had my hair chopped off last Thursday! I had 12 inches for Locks of Love and several more for experimentation, most of which ended up on the floor. If only my compost was ready! Though I’m not sure one should put hair, especially lots of hair in a compost. Have yet to run across that in an article.

         It’s done! I have very little hair left! What’s left is a fabulous bob that I love! Even a small amount of bangs, which I have not had in almost 14 years. Shoot, I need to be careful that my inner vanity doesn’t splatter all over this post. Hehe.

    New hair

    New hair

         Now, I have my hair in an envelope, under the bathroom sink, safe from Milo’s destructive path. Since my hair is so fine it’s really slippery and started to get all over the place and come out of the pony tail while I was at the salon. I’ve got to carefully place it back in order, which could prove to be a challenge. I want it to be useful for some little girl or boy whom has gone bald due to chemo. So, if you are planning to chop your locks in the near future, give this a thought. Locks of Love provides kids with cancer wigs of real hair. It’s a charity. And though it may not seem like making a wig is all that important. Could you imagine being a prepubescent or pubescent girl/boy already very insecure with their new feelings and on top of that an illness and subsequent treatments that completely reform their body? Plus, it’s way better than tossing the hair in the garbage. Win, win for me.

         I will say that there are other ways to “recycle” your hair cuttings. There is a company, Matter of Trust, that uses it to make something, a rug or whatever, to soak up oil. And since there is a huge spill in the Gulf Coast, now might be a good time to bring a baggie to the stylist, to bring back your hair that is too short for Locks of Love. I’ll be researching how I might be able to acquire hair from salons around here and send it to the company for all those poor marine creatures. Stay tuned!

    Note: A friend of mine also chopped her locks this weekend for Locks of Love. As long as she doesn’t mind I’ll add a before and after picture of her hair.
    For detailed information about how to donate your hair click, Locks of Love. For information about Matter of Trust, the company that makes the stuff to clean up spills, click here. I’m going to read more about them. It appears that they take pet hair and wool as well, which is nifty.

    Missy the Modern Hippy

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