Catch up in Bellingham Hippie Land

Posted on 15th February 2012 in Life

So here I am again. It’s been a long, long time. Almost five months actually. That didn’t happen on purpose, but it did and I have no regrets. Sometimes when things get real something has to give.

So here it is in case you were curious. September included the Whatcom Farm Tour which was awesome. It’s my Christmas actually. LOVE it! A week or so after that I sprained my ankle and my car was wrecked within 8 days of each other. Total crap. I’m not going to sugar coat it. It sucked super badly. What happened was on a Thursday night after work I tripped off the last stair in my building while carrying my customary pile of crazy work stuff – sheets, oils, my bag – and I landed on the top of my foot. Seriously. The top of my foot was upside down. I learned later that with a bad sprain you can actually dislocate your foot in the process. That’s exactly what happened. I had to put my foot back and not vomit all over the street. I think I earned some serious cool injury points for that one, if not cool than toughness points.

About a week later and I was rearended and my car, my beautifully bright red car was totaled. *big frowny face* It caused ouchies all over my body. Thank goodness for PIP coverage. For any of you whom don’t have it, put it back on as soon as you can! It will take all the complication out of getting treatment for your injuries. It’s the best thing you will hopefully never have to use.

Anyway, these two things threw a monkey wrench in my life so I didn’t do anything unless I had to, including blogging, making kombucha, doing laundry, dishes, winterizing my porch or riding my bike to work. But instead of this being a bad thing it allowed me to prioritize my life a bit better. I stopped all non essential activities. I healed and worked and slept – the most important things.

Between pity parties some great things made themselves apparent. Firstly, I have a sweet loving Rick. Second, I have no car payment now. Thirdly, I had to become more organized. Fourth, I learned to take and ask for help. I don’t like it but I learned to ask a bit more. Good things from bad happenings.

The holidays came around and I made my second turkey ever at my parents house. It was delicious. We took some time away just before Christmas. Rick got all creative for the holidays.

Then came January. Sweet January. Oh thank the Universe for January. Decompression month. We ended the month with a trip to Capitol Hill (Seattle not D.C., though that would be cool as well), a free haircut, and some outings that included gluten free and grass fed beef.

Now it is the middle of February. It’s lovely outside. It rains but it doesn’t crush my soul. It’s grey right now, but it’s okay because it’s warmish. I’m just puttering through the month, continually prioritizing, putting myself back together still. My business is growing. I’m getting out and enjoying my sweet Bellingham. Life is great.

So excuse my absence. It was needed. I was living more in my community than I ever had before. That doesn’t mean that everyone knows my name. But it does mean that at Brandywine Kitchen two of the chicks recognize us now. Xiann and I walk the Railroad Trail often. Rick and I just do stuff. It’s amazing. It’s wonderful. I still can’t believe how wonderful a life we lead. Sure it’s not perfect, but it shouldn’t be or we wouldn’t notice how great everything can be.

So anyway, that’s what’s happened. I hope that the last few months have been great for the handful of my readers.

Cheers

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Website Changes – From “Modern” to “Bellingham”

Posted on 29th January 2011 in Bellingham, Life

So, to all 5 of you whom read this on occasion and whom might be a little confused as to where in the world you ended up, I’ll explain. I’m very particular, once I get an idea into my head it’s hard to get it out. A few months ago when I was directing someone to my site for kombucha directions, I had a funny feeling in my tummy when telling them how to spell it. “Hippy with a “y”, not “ie” that belongs to someone else.” Hmmm. Then it happened again within a few weeks, same weird feeling. The “y” was starting to mock me, “That’s not how you spell it. Nahnahnah boo boo.” That “y” was a bitch. She just didn’t understand. Ignoring her worked a little bit for a while.

Then as I was growing in my hippie ways, I became more locally focused, more devoted to my favorite town in the world – Bellingham. I belong here. It fits like a glove. The farmer’s market is divine. We have two co-ops, a natural food store, Trader Joe’s, a flea market, at least two vegan restaurants that are almost completely gluten free, and lots of locally focused businesses that are super awesome. Did I mention that we have at least four bookstores?
The mountain rests just behind us, the ocean and her sea gulls sit just below us. It’s a beautiful place that just hugs you. Bellingham hugs you. I want to grow old here, return here from road trips and other travels, to buy a house and have a HUGE garden, go to the library, the Board Walk. It’s mine and I’m only sharing a little bit.
Sorry, sounding a little possessive. I love this town. She’s been good to me in the last year and half.

Also, while not all the posts have been published, many of them have become more locally focused. I don’t want to think too generally, I want to think within Bellingham. There was an idea to start another blog focusing entirely on my favorite town. However, I didn’t want to leave “The Modern” behind. She’s my baby, my bit of fun that I can have whenever I want.

Within the last week, while avoiding homework, Rick and I had a chat about this site’s name and “url” – that little “www.somethingornothing.com” thingy. We learned who owned what, and finally I decided to take the plunge. Bellinghamhippie.com was available and it could be all mine, a sweet new home where this hippie could share the stuff she learns. Yeah, it felt good.

Another thing that has been brewing is a thought about trying to get this site to pay for itself. The adsense, those pesky little ads on the side, help, but I’m not sure I want them there forever. This site is outgrowing them, evolving into something else, more pure, more grown up.
With that said, I’m planning on putting up a donate button, not asking for money, but as a digital “tip jar”. I compile a lot of information and if it’s useful you can toss the pot some digital cash. If you want. No pressure, I’m just going to put it there and see what happens. Nothing comes for free, and while we can still afford this site, we are much more mindful of where our money goes. This economy and being self employed as taught us that nothing is stable, nothing if forever, so be prepared. Meaning, we are paying off debt and looking for ways to stop occasional monetary leaks from our life. (Too cheesy? Oh well.)

I’m also going to put up an Amazon book list. Bookworm that I am, I read a lot, some health related, some environment related, lots of fiction, and much more. No reason I can’t put a book list up. The way those things work is if you click through my list and buy something I get a small fee for referring people. It’s fairly common, perhaps you’ve done it before. I’m telling you about it though, this place is not for sneaking stuff from people, it’s for directions on roasting chicken, hair experiments, and honest recommendations. If it bothers you that I put something like an Amazon book list… well, okay? I don’t know why anyone would be bothered but I’m sure it’s possible.

So basically, bear with me as I move stuff around, make it lot prettier (this could take a little time), tell me if something is broken. Thanks!

Newly termed,
Bellingham Hippie

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My brain has melted

Posted on 12th October 2010 in Life

I’ve been away too long. But I have a good excuse, I’m a student, studiously avoiding the internet and all her distractions, except those related to my classes. I wanted you to know that I haven’t forgotten, I’m just busy and getting the hang of classes again. I started school behind, I worked two weekends in a row. Bad idea. I know now that weekends shouldn’t have much in them other than chill time and study time. Lesson learned. I think I might actually be catching up on my assignments, so I’m hoping to get back to my posting and picture taking. I did tell you that I was working on a photo blog right? If not, you know I am now. I’m going to put my and Rick’s best there.
Aside from school I’m still a yarn fiend. I just finished crocheting a giant bag for my yarn. Now my kitties and sweet puppy can’t unravel everything over night! I’ll have to remember to take a picture of it so I can show off some more. I have requests from friends to make more. I have just have to finish my homework and buy food for my animals first, oh yeah, and work. I always forget about work.

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College, students, and feeling old

Posted on 22nd September 2010 in Life

      You’ll probably be hearing the occasional thing about school. Today was my first day. First day of online classes. Meaning, I stood in line for close to two hours to get all the stuff I needed to do school from home. Three separate lines. I didn’t get into the wrong one either. Just three long lines. I’m happy it’s done.

      I was reminded, as I walked passed students, faculty, and parents, that I’m a student. I don’t feel like one. I feel like an intruder, or like a blogger, just looking in for a story. Or for a picture because there’s something about yellow orange leaves anywhere. College campuses often have lots of leaves to spare.

      I stood behind a girl who wanted to be part of student government, behind a boy who looked 17, and another who looked and sounded 19. It reminded me that kids in college are so unsettled. They are out to meet lots of people, experience their fellow students and classes. They are out to have fun and do some learning along the way.
      It’s a guess, probably accurate, that not one of them is planning or saving for a house. Like me. I’m old. I like it. I’m in-between-old, not really old, but beyond the crazy partying of college aged kids. I’m in the house saving age group. A house so I can have a huge compost pile, and another dog, and a green house. I want to putter around and be an old person, baking gluten free cookies, hands stained with dirt from planting potatoes, in my own backyard. I want to plant an apple tree. I want to put down roots. 20 year old Missy would be horrified….

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Teach yourself!

Posted on 16th September 2010 in Life, Opinions

      Even though I plan on going to school for journalism and would love some day to have a PhD in something(perhaps holistic nutritional application through journalism – yeah I made that up, it’s what I do), I am a huge advocate of teaching yourself. Following what interests you might have and figuring out how to become the very best you can at it. If you want.
      I’ve been reading The Organic Sister for awhile and she is an advocate for unschooling – adademically, body, and whole life. You don’t need a classroom to learn. In fact, a classroom might not give you anything useful for how you want to live your life. For further well written explanations of unschooling, whole life and more, check out these posts: Whole Life Unschooling: It’s For More Than Just Kids,I Am Not Broken, Body Compassion,The Uproar Over Unschooling. There is so much more, you’ll just have to scroll through her lovely site. If you don’t fall in love with her amazing photos I’ll be surprised.

      It’s had me thinking, a lot. And you know, I only share a small amount of what I’m actually thinking about. Weekly, I mentally run through what is a burning passion of mine, burning enough that I have to get it out. This is important enough to post about. Teach yourself! What are you interested in? What is even just mildly amusing? What have you thought was the niftiest thing for a long time? You don’t have to wait to delve into the interest. You don’t have to take a class, there is a lot you can do thanks to the internet, friends, the library, and second hand shops.

A couple of my interests that I finally decided I could step forth and tackle: knitting and herbalism.

Knitting

Harvest Yarn Knitting Project

Harvest Yarn Knitting Project

      A friend of mine taught me the basics of knitting a few months ago. I’ve made a small handful of things since then, a hat for a friend, two hats for me. I should really branch out and make something else. When we were on our vacation this summer we ran across an awesome yarn shop, Cr.eations – A yarn shop, where I bought some double pointed needles, yarn on sale, patterns and yarn for one pattern in particular. I just have to take that step and decode the pattern. It’s also important to me that I continue to practice my basic stitches so when it’s time to start that sweater it looks gorgeously uniform. So the current project is another hat, which I may or may not keep, I’m not sure how I feel about it yet. The amazing thing is that I followed a pattern and it didn’t look like the picture. I figured out why it was wrong! It was because I’m knitting my hat on round needles and I don’t turn around to do the next row. Knitting in the round involves going around and around for a long time. No switching needed. Only problem is that some patterns seem to be made for knitting something with sides. No worries though! I figured it out and made the needed changes to fix it. Now it looks like the pattern! The amazing thing is I didn’t have to take a class! Logic and a little bit of math(multiplication and division) were the only things I really needed to use. I am a friend and internet taught knitter!

Herbalism

Herbalism Books

Herbalism Books

      Learning about herbalism has been on my mind for at least a year, which for me is a long time. Last year I found a class I want to take when I have money and time. Cedar Mountain Herb School offers internships for all seasons. But as my post about debt should have lead you to believe, I don’t have a lot of money, and this year I have no extra time for another class. So instead of feeling sorry for myself over something I can’t change, I decided to check the required reading for that class out of the library. I’m only just through the introduction of Medicinal Plants of the Pacific West. But that’s okay, I’m excited. They are both reference books and when I feel I can justify spending money on them, they will be joining my library. Also, I’ll be checking in on Good Natured Earthling’s(she runs Cedar Mountain Herb School) Facebook page for suggestions, and random useful information.

      See! No classroom needed. I’m not actually sure that the herbalism school has a typical classroom. Because of the nature of herbalism there is a lot of outside stuff, learning the whole process from harvesting to preserving in different forms and using them.
      My life now reminds me a lot of what I had wanted to do when I was in school. If you don’t already know, I was home-schooled all through grade and middle school. I was enrolled in a “real” private school, but it was only slightly different from homeschooling. In the end I got my diploma after four years of doing what I actually wanted.
      When in high-school, I had wanted soooo badly to pursue what I was interested in, drawing, writing, photography, books of all kinds. I wanted to be free of the boring requirements set by the school and the state. Meaning, less math and US history (note: there is nothing wrong with those subjects. I’m not greatly talented at math and I hated the fact that I had to take US history at least three different times. But if I remember correctly, that’s what the state required. *shakes fist*). Now the math I use is stuff to help me get done the fun things I want to do, knitting, crocheting, cooking, and taxes(bleh). Learning doesn’t have to happen in a classroom, at a public school that has old school books and over-worked teachers. It doesn’t have to be organized by an expert or come with a certification(unless it’s required by the state, i.e. massage therapy, but that makes sense). It’s just as legitimate to teach yourself to do something as it is to have a paid teacher instruct you. In fact, it can be a point of pride, of achievement if you answer a question with, “I taught myself”. It’s not shameful or embarrassing to teach yourself or to have a parent or friend teach you. Unfortunately, there are still people out there that still believe the best time of your life is spent in a boring classroom between the ages of 5 and 18. Prove them wrong, teach yourself, your children, your friends, your neighbors, or even the nay-sayers something fun and useful that you actually want to learn.

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Debt – Modern Day Slavery

Posted on 15th September 2010 in Life

      Debt is something I’ve been thinking about for a very long time. In early ’09 I was busy paying off debt we incurred after Rick got laid off and we had to buy out our lease, and forgo paying for a couple of other bills for at least a month, and the medical bills that had surprised us months after the E.R. visit. I don’t know why those bills still surprise me. I know they are coming, it’s just unnerving to read $756 or whatever, on an official hospital statement. (Note: at the time of the E.R. visit, we had health insurance, we had not met our deductible, hence the bill.)

      Since then I’ve had this goal in the back of my mind: to pay off our debt, in a sort of timely manner, so we don’t have to feel like everything is so tight. So maybe we can get ahead, and actually own our stuff, whatever stuff we decide to keep. So we can feel free.
      I have no idea what a timely manner is. I’m not sure how long it’s going to take to pay off the student and private loans we have. I do have an end date for my car, but it seems so far off. It’s just overwhelming, and very depressing when it’s challenging to figure out how much money we have for food and fun, also, how much money we are going to need for taxes and school next year. Taxes are something one has to save for when one is self employed. Quite frankly, some days I’m just tired of feeling like I’m a hamster running nowhere on my wheel.

      I have goals that require me to have less debt and more money saved. The biggest goal at the moment is a home, a house, a roof that we own, windows that are mine, and a yard in which to compost, grow insane amounts of herbs and veggies, let Xiann run around like a crazy dog. Yes, it’s official. I am okay with the idea of buying a house. I feel at home enough in Bellingham to stay awhile, probably a long time. Yet that goal I’ve now set for myself feels like it won’t happen for a very, very long time.

      It’s my impatience that’s talking. It’s my feelings of what aren’t quite regret. I don’t think one should regret that which teaches you a lesson. But it doesn’t feel good a lot of the time. I have to remind myself that it’s a process that can’t, or shouldn’t happen over night. It could be considered a right of passage. Changing from a participant of the rat race, to a sustainable/organic/recycled/reused thinking, independent person – with way less debt and a life of which I can be proud.

      I ran across this blog: Tiny r(E)volution. The writer and his wife have made it a goal to build their own tiny, recycled/reused/movable/environmentally-friendly/way-less-expensive home.
      There were two posts specifically that spoke to me. Both are about debt and the American rat race, and how crazy it has become. Check them out for some inspiration and encouragement.

The Modern Hippy

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Holistic

Posted on 10th September 2010 in Health Related, Life

      I’ve been learning so much in just the last year. I’ve been trying to retrain myself to think in a whole different way. Life is simple yet complex. There isn’t any one solution. It’s about balance. It’s about being whole.

Holistic – dictionary.com defines it as the following:

    “1. Adjective -
    incorporating the concept of holism in theory or practice: holistic psychology.
    2.
    identifying with principles of holism in a system of therapeutics, esp. one considered outside the mainstream of scientific medicine, as naturopathy or chiropractic, and usually involving nutritional measures.”

    Also:
    “of or relating to the the medical consideration of the complete person, physically and psychologically, in the treatment of a disease”

    and:
    “relating to or concerned with wholes or with complete systems rather than with the analysis of, treatment of, or dissection into parts < holistic medicine attempts to treat both the mind and the body>“

      Thesaurus.com gives the following words as synonyms: Aggregate, comprehensive, entire, full, integrated, total and universal.
I’m particularly fond of integrated, entire, total and universal.
      I think what I’ve been learning is that holistic is the way things should be, life should be. It’s what I’ve been looking for. But we have forgotten. Everything is compartmentalized. It’s why thinking only in terms of massage at work leaves things unexplained. It’s why we can look at Rick as separate conditions, one skin, one colon, separate, never considered together. It’s why we as a society can say we love our jobs that stress us out, but feel like crap and can’t understand why. It’s why so many of us don’t say no to anyone and wonder why we are so tired. We’ve forgotten about the very idea of balance – of wholeness. We’ve all been told by someone or something, especially here in America, that we can have it all. But all might be too much for us. That was never warned.

      I used to get confused when people won’t get better after a massage a week for months. Now I see them more clearly. I see tired people, too much coffee, too little nutrient rich food, too little fun/down time, too much “Yes” and not enough “No”. I hear that someone still has migraines or a low back ache – I kindly as I can – tell them that they will never get better if they don’t change something in their daily life. Sometimes it posture, sometimes it’s the hours worked in a day, or the chair, or whatever.

      I can see myself more clearly. Frankly, if I saw myself as a client, I would have said long ago, chill out, back off, eat well and get off your bum. Quit thinking compartmentally. Everything counts, from the poor hours sleep you got last night, to the half bag of potato chips you called a snack, to slouching too much while standing and sitting. It all matters. Everything we do matters! Kind of exciting, really.

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Productivity

Posted on 5th September 2010 in Life

      Something is in the air. Perhaps it’s the season changing to autumn, perhaps its the tea I’ve been drinking, or how well I’ve been sleeping, either way I’ve felt a change. I feel more like I did over six years ago, when my only worry was helping my “kids” with their homework and how much – or little – sleep I got the night before.
      After our vacation, slowly but surely I’ve been gaining energy. There has been an improvement in my cognitive ability – meaning I don’t feel like I’m walking around with cotton between my ears. I finally feel like yes, I do want to be self-employed again. I do want to go to school for journalism. Yup, that’s right. I’ve kept it under wraps because I didn’t know if anything would come through properly. But life is running a little more smoothly now. I’ve got passion, I’ve got drive, I have finally got creative juices running on an almost daily basis! Oh it’s good to be back!

      As an off shoot from my main focus – if you can see the main focus at all, it’s more healthful and mindful living in case you were wondering – I’m going to share some of my goals and projects for the next few months.

  • Going back to school for journalism – nutritional (and environmental) journalism
  • Actually doing something for my business to keep it from falling apart. (Shameless plug: check out Bellingham Massage Clinic)
  • Decorating our apartment because I want it to feel more like home, less like a crazy asylum
  • Taking running and yoga up again
  • Knitting a sweater for myself
  • Taking more photos
  • Remembering to pay attention to how beautiful life can be, enjoying the little things, whatever they may be
  • And so much more!
          Moral of this post. Life’s too short, take a vacation!

    (You know what’s really funny. I wrote this a couple of days before a nasty bug laid me out. Productivity gone until I can smell and sleep well again. Thought I should post it even though at the moment all my desires to redecorate are stunted by being really, really tired.)

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    Welcome Back!

    Posted on 28th July 2010 in Life

    After almost a week unplanned hiatus, yours truly, the Modern Hippy, is back!
    I have so many things planned. I was on vacation for about a week, before the website disappeared.
    I’ll be sharing more eco-friendly camping ideas. Eco-friendly road trip ideas. Yes, I said that. It might not seem like an eco-friendly type of vacation, however, there are ways to lessen one’s impact. I’ll have another post for the Aunt Flow series. There has also been a recently, awesomely cool, development in my hair experiments. I’ll be sharing a little about a couple of awesome people we met while camping. She has a website about living more balanced. She also sells ebooks, two of which I bought and am about ready to read. Stay tuned for my onslot of crazy posting!

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    Stress

    Posted on 30th June 2010 in Health Related, Life, Opinions

         I’ve been trying really hard to keep this blog up beat in the last two years. Mostly because life has often been a downer. Wonderful things have happened, especially since we moved to Bellingham. However, it does seem like just after I decompress, something else comes up and squashes my feelings of contentment.

         Since I feel like throwing in the towel at the moment(and using cliches left and right), I thought I’d have a chat about stress and stress management. I might end up talking typing my way into being more Zen.

         Stress does bad things to your body if you don’t know how to manage it. Long term stress, even if you do know how to manage it well, will do bad things also. Muscles tighten, digestion slows or speeds up, sleep gets longer, less, or interrupted in some way. (Hence why I’ve started this post at 6:30 a.m.) Depending on many different things, it can negatively impact relationships, or draw you and whomever closer together.

         So what the %@&*!!! does one do to better manage stress? Well, it doesn’t come easy and it takes some experimenting. Think about what you enjoy doing. This can be your starting point. I love reading, writing, art, gardening, nature, learning how to take better pictures with my gorgeous new camera, etc.

    Managing stress part one

         One needs to be able to identify that there is a problem before a solution(or experiment) can be reached. What the hell is stressing you out? To use me as an example, I’ve always had trouble sleeping. So I’ve always been tired. The “older” I get, the worse, or more tired I get. The less ability I have to deal with bullshit. I had found a solution to the problem of my sleeping/nightmares in acupuncture. It works! It’s brilliant! Now I just have to build my energy back up by sleeping well for a longer period of time. Though I’ll never really be able to make up for all that poor sleeping for 25+ years, or so they say.
         Unfortunately, it doesn’t take much to wear me out. After a day with a horrible migraine, two nights of not sleeping more than 4.5 hours each night, I was unable to fully deal with a business challenge, along with working a ton, getting up early and not being able to nap, two extra-whiny-needy pets, and not having a lot of down time to recover, among other things. The last straw was a speeding ticket on my way to work. Within a few minutes, I started bawling. There was no way I could do any sort of body work that day. Luckily, the people I work with are very understanding. They know that sometimes you just can’t work.
         See, I identified a bunch of problems. Part one completed.

    What I could have done differently.
         Really, the migraine should have tipped me off. But I thought it was just a fluke, nothing horrible, just a crazy thing happening by chance. I also should have paid closer attention to the stresses I was feeling due to the business stuff I was having to deal with for the last week or so. It was more intense that I was used to. Something that would have possibly helped was remembering to pull out my aromatherapy, talking about it more, doing some deep diaphragmatic breathing, taking a walk, etc.
         I tend to be one of those people whom holds everything inside, which isn’t healthy because it has to come out eventually. So talking, for me is a good thing, if I can start. Even if I end up talking about something that is different, but still bothers me, it can help relieve the “exploding” feeling I get sometimes.

         Blogging can also help, which is why I started this post very early this morning.(It’s no longer in the a.m. at the moment.) Unfortunately, I didn’t let myself cry then, which may have helped prevent a bawling session that cost me some work hours.

    Managing stress part two

         Pick something you enjoy doing, or that you know helps you to decompress, or that you just read about. Start somewhere! Try breathing techniques. If you need an idea as to how to do that, read here. Try drinking a cup of tea. Go for a walk. We have all heard that moderate exercise increases endorphins, which make us happy and helps us to de-stress. Try something. If you don’t feel better, try something else. Remember that it can’t last forever, there has to be an end eventually.

         Of course you can argue that looking back I can say anything. You are right about that. I can’t change what happened, all I can do it try to learn from it and do better next time. No one should expect you to be perfect and “on” all the time. Mistakes happen, life happens, shit happens. Sometimes the thing to do, is to just cry it out, pick yourself back up and try again.

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